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WITH CHRISTINE HASSLER

Are you working on yourself to get something?

At my book workshops I have been hearing a lot of people sharing about personal growth expectation hangovers.  I have observed confusion and frustration as people make comments like:

“I’m doing all this work on myself, but the things in my life that I want are not happening. I don’t know what I am doing wrong.”

 “I am really trying to love myself but I am still single. Since I do not have my soulmate, I must still not love myself.”

 “I feel like I’ve been doing this work forever and things in my life still aren’t changing. I am tempted to give up because it doesn’t seem to be working.”

Can you relate to any of this?  Are you having a personal growth expectation hangover?  Well I hope to offer you a little relief in the form of a big wake-up call in today’s vlog.

Here is the Truth: The purpose of personal growth work is not to get some kind of external outcome. Granted, the desire for a relationship, career change, money, health or whatever it is you long for may be the catalyst that puts you on the path of a seeker, but please do not make it your goal.  If you do, not only are you potentially setting yourself for an expectation hangover, you are missing the point of doing transformational work.

So what is the purpose of doing personal growth work?

We do the work to grow in our consciousness. We do the work to heal issues that have been heavy on our heart. We do the work to dissolve misunderstandings and limiting beliefs. We do the work to move out of fear and back into love. We do the work to nurture a more loving relationship with ourselves. And we do the work to connect more deeply to the Divine.

And as we do the work . . .

We realize the truth of who we are.  We open our hearts to love.  We show up more loving and compassionate in all our relationships. We experience more joy, gratitude and peace of mind.  We are gentle with ourselves. We listen to the voice of our intuition over our ego.  We allow ourselves to be guided.

Please do not minimize all the absolutely sacred transformational work you have done. Measuring your consciousness by external results is like evaluating a meal by only looking at your food rather than tasting it. Take in and savor all your incredible growth!!

Go for soul evolution not goal line results. Make how you feel on the inside become what you are devoted to rather than external results @christinhassler (Tweet this).  Keep your focus on intrinsic intentions and you will avoid a personal growth expectation hangover.

Be pleasantly surprised by the people, situations and experiences that start to show up in your life as you become less obsessed with results.

Keep doing the work. Your soul depends on it.

Love,

Christine

p.s. I WANT TO MEET YOU!!  It has been so touching to connect with so many of you at the events I have done so far and there are more coming so please come out and experience an expectation hangover workshop.  It means so much to me to see you!

LOS ANGELES: Tonight I’m throwing a party to celebrate the release of Expectation Hangover and it’s the biggest one I have ever thrown.  Come for a night of inspiration, entertainment, and connection.  Grab your spot here!

Then I’m headed to CHICAGO, AUSTIN and DALLAS.  Full schedule and tickets are here.

p.p.s. Have you gotten the free gifts I am offering with your copy of Expectation Hangover?  Go here to receive access to interviews with Dr. Lissa Rankin, Robert Holden and a 10 part video series from me.

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