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WITH CHRISTINE HASSLER

Ever struggle with making decisions?

Decisions. Ever find that they are hard to make?

Whether it’s a small one like which outfit to where or a big one like leaving your job or a relationship . . . often the process of choosing creates anxiety.

We worry about making the “wrong” choice and possibly miss out on something or face regret later. We make pro/con lists. We talk to a million people and get a collection of advice that just usually confuses us more. We google for hours in the search of some clarifying insight. Some of us even run to psychics and astrologers hoping they will have a crystal ball to see which choice will create our best future.

The longer a decision-making process lasts, the more agonizing it becomes. The more time we take to mull over a choice, the longer we stay in limbo. And limbo is hell. In this week’s vlog, I have some tips for you to get you out of a limbo and make a choice.

The first and most important thing that I want to reassure you of is that you cannot make the wrong choice.  I promise.  It is impossible to screw up your destiny @christinhassler (Tweet this!)

With every choice we make, we will receive some kind of feedback from the Universe that reveals whether we are moving in a direction that’s in alignment or that we need to shift directions by making another choice.

But in order to get that feedback, you must make a choice. You must liberate yourself from limbo of indecision.  You must stop running to others for answers. Clarity does not come from hypothetical analysis, it comes from making a choice and taking action @christinhassler  (Tweet this!)

Also, I encourage you to change your vocabulary when it comes to decision making. Use the word “choose” instead of “decide.” The root “cide” means to “kill off” (homicide, genocide, suicide – you get the picture). Often using the word “decide” feels scary because it feels like we are killing off something else which activates serious FOMO (fear of missing out).  Switch your language to choice, choose, and choosing. And remember how amazing it is that we have the freedom to choose!!!

When asking HOW to make a decision, here is a how-to process that I share in more detail in today’s vlog:

1. Write out the choice you are struggling to make.

2. List each possible choice you could make and the potential outcome of that choice on a separate piece of paper or write it on your computer and print it out (you actually need physical paper for this process).

3. Lay out each choice on the floor in front of you in a line with enough space between each one to stand in front of each choice.

4. Moving from left to right, stand in front of the first choice and pause. Look at the choice and then step on top of the paper (symbolically you are stepping INTO that choice). Close your eyes and allow yourself to fully take on that choice. For a moment, commit fully to that option. See yourself making that choice and in the outcome of that choice. How does it feel? What is happening in your body? Where do your thoughts go? What pictures do you see? Experientially feel into that choice until you have fully taken it on. Good.

5. Step back and write in your journal what you experienced and observed when you fully stepped into that choice.

6. Repeat the process for the remaining pieces of paper (aka other choices).

If you fully embrace this exercise, you will have a very clear sense of what choice feels most aligned for you. Our intuition and our senses are usually a much better compass than our mind. Follow your inner compass and choose.

And once again, I promise you this: You cannot choose wrong.  Free yourself from limbo.  Trust yourself.

Happy Choosing!

Love,

Christine

“Make a decision and then make the decision right. Line up your Energy with it. In most cases it doesn’t really matter what you decide. Just decide. There are endless options that would serve you enormously well, and all or any one of them is better than no decision.” Abraham

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