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WITH CHRISTINE HASSLER

The Pitfalls of People Pleasing

Are you concerned about what other people think of you and often make decisions based on what you think will please others?

Do you often withhold from sharing what you truly want, think or feel because of fear it may upset someone?

Are you often last on your list of priorities – or definitely not first?

People pleasing can range in severity from putting what others think before your own truth to being a complete doormat. No degree of people pleasing is a good thing but being a complete doormat is downright dangerous! The more you put others before your own needs, the more your own light starts to fade and you lose sight of yourself.

That is exactly what was beginning to happen to Shaun, my caller this week on Over it and On With podcast. Go here to listen to the episode.

I do not want you to loose sight of yourself and your needs! I encourage you to really be honest with yourself about people pleasing patterns and change them.

People pleasing will not get you love. I repeat, people pleasing will not get you love. Not the kind of deep, intimate, authentic love you long for. (Tweet this!!)

Tune in here to listen to me coach Shaun about how his people pleasing patterns are being illuminated during his divorce. I also did a special coaches corner on people pleasing which is a great follow-up to the session.

Love,
Christine

p.s. RETREATS RETREATS!!!! I have two coming up: First my signature retreat in LA happens in July and then in September I am taking a group to Bali. Both I promise are life changing and both are filling up fast so email jill@christinehassler.com to apply.

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