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Coaches Corner: The Mask of Masculinity with Lewis Howes

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This is an incredibly candid, informative and vulnerable chat with my longtime friend and all around powerhouse, Lewis Howes. Listen in as we talk about the masks of masculinity, why men act a certain way, the healing power of expressing our feelings, relationship tips and so much more!

Listen to EP 128 as a compliment to this interview!

Lewis Howes is a lifestyle entrepreneur, high performance business coach and keynote speaker. A former professional football player and two-sport All-American, he is a current USA Men’s National Handball Team athlete. He hosts a top 100 iTunes ranked podcast, The School of Greatness, which has over 5 million downloads and 500 episodes since its launch in 2013. Lewis was recognized by The White House and President Obama as one of the top 100 entrepreneurs in the country under 30.

Get his book, The Mask Of Masculinity here: http://bit.ly/2FC0gCe

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EP 130: Heal Daddy Issues and Create Authentic Relationships with Marie


This call is about speaking your truth and being authentic in dating. Today’s caller, Marie, calls in wanting to know how to break off a bad relationship but it turns out she needs to heal old wounds from her relationship with her father.

If you are asking yourself, how do I stop dating the same person with a different face? You should know that when we are born we know we are connected to a higher power and we know that we are unconditionally loved. Then, our conscious mind takes over and we lose a bit of our antenna and we project ‘God,’ or the source of unconditional love, on to our parents. If they don’t or are unable to give us unconditional love, we search for it through our relationships.

If you have been yearning for love and feel unlovable your story will create your reality. Emotional availability is not just about vulnerability, it is about honesty and speaking your truth.

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Consider/Ask Yourself:

  • Do you keep dating the same person with a different face?
  • Are you pretending in any of your relationships? Are you a chameleon? Are you being more strategic than authentic?
  • Do you doubt your ability to be loved?
  • Are you hoping someday a parent will show up differently for you than they have in the past?
  • Do you have the relationships you crave or do you have relationships you hope one day will turn into what you want?

Marie’s Question:

Marie has become obsessed with a relationship she knows she should end and wants to know how to get over it and on with it.

Marie’s Key Insights and Aha’s:

  • She has experienced a lot of heartache.
  • She believes men just leave relationships.
  • She doesn’t have a close relationship with her father.
  • She has issue-based relationships.
  • She is looking for emotional relief from her dad.
  • She continues to chase emotional intimacy.
  • She’s emotionally unavailable.
  • She doesn’t let people see the real Marie.
  • She has yearned for male attention her entire life.

How to get over it and on with it:

  • She should write a letter and speak her truth to her father.
  • She should start having an authentic, emotionally honest relationship with her father.
  • She should break her patterns of pretending in relationships.

Assignments and Takeaways:

  • Take an inventory of your relationships. Where are you being strategic versus authentic?
  • Start to have honest, vulnerable communication with the people in your life.
  • If you are obsessing about someone, consider what lesson your discomfort is leading you toward.
  • When it comes to change, healing, and making your dreams come true, don’t just be helpful — be committed.


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Coaches Corner: Get over your Valentine’s Day Expectation Hangover and fall more in love (with yourself and others)

Screen Shot 2017-09-18 at , Sep 18>10.40.25 AMChristine received a lot of messages from listeners who had Expectation Hangovers this Valentines Day. If you feel lonely, disappointed, heart-broken or just plain bitter about love, then listen up!

Christine talks about what self-love really is, how to not suffer over being single, and how to release expectations of your romantic partner.

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Coaches Corner: Christine answers listener questions about relationship and career

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In this episode of Coaches Corner, Christine opens her inbox and answers three emails from listeners.  Tune in for guidance on relationships, healing old wounds, and choosing a career path that lights up your soul!

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