This call is about moving out of indecision, making a choice, and taking action. Today’s caller, Cecilia, wants permission to make a decision. She has allowed logistics to block any action she is considering and she is overwhelmed with the ‘hows’ and hasn’t fully examined the ‘what ifs.’ During the call, we uncover what her intuition is telling her and why she should listen to it.
Often, we are so obsessed with making the wrong choice we find ourselves paralyzed in the limbo of indecision, which can be hell. Even those big leap of faith decisions which include a high degree of uncertainty need resolution. You cannot choose wrong, so I encourage you to JUST choose. The only way we get support from the universe is if we take a step and make a decision.
When you are deciding between two things you must get in 100% alignment with the choice you are making. Even if you have made a choice, be honest with yourself. Are you in 100% alignment with it or are you still looking for an out? Get strong and clear in your intention. The universe cannot reveal the next steps when you are half in a decision.
It’s never too late to go for your dreams!
*Coaches take note — I wanted to get Cecilia out of her head and more into her feelings. I knew talking through her issue wasn’t going to get her anywhere. So, I set up two situations, I painted a picture or laid out what the outcomes would be if she chose option ‘A’ and I did the same for option ‘B.’ I allowed her intuition to choose the outcome.
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- Is there a decision you are having a hard time making? Are you living in limbo land as you analyze the decision you have to make?
- Are you waiting for permission to do something you know in your heart you want to do?
- Do you collect evidence that supports your dreams or supports your fears?
Cecilia would like to know if her longing to be somewhere else is the universe calling her to go there or if she has glamorized a moment in time.
Cecilia’s Key Insights and Aha’s:
- She feels relieved when someone gives her permission.
- She feels lonely and hasn’t found her tribe.
- She knows she runs away from things.
- She assumes she is going to make the wrong decision.
- She’s living in limbo-land.
- She’s not resisting the push towards making a clear choice.
- She doesn’t have a lot to lose.
- Her biggest obstacle is fear.
How to Get Over It and On With It:
- She should answer her ‘what ifs.’
- She should get 100% aligned and behind one decision.
- She should project 20 years in the future to see if she regrets her inaction.
- Understand the universe will support her and the decision she makes.
Assignments & Takeaways:
- Get 2 sheets of paper, write one choice on one of the sheets and one choice on the other sheet then step forward using your intuition onto both sheets of paper at different times to see how your body reacts. This provides incredible feedback.
- Give yourself permission to choose and permission to take a leap.
- Remember, it’s never too late to go for your dreams. My “Why Going for Your Dreams Matters Most… No Matter What” podcast addresses how to move past fear and doubt to hear your inner voice.
- Listen to my Coaches Corner on “How to Get Over Feeling Lonely”.
- One of the easiest ways to meet like-minded people is to put yourself in places and situations where you can meet them like my 2019 Spring Retreat in March. It’s a great opportunity to meet like-minded people.
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