Last week in my women’s coaching circle, one of the women was sharing about a work situation and expressed that she “needs to work on being more confident.” She believed that she would be more respected in her company if she communicated like the other employees who she perceives as being more confident. Can you…
Read MoreImagine five days on a beautiful beachfront property, daily yoga, delicious food, connecting with like-minded women, swimming in the ocean, sunsets, time just for you to relax . . . and leaving with a full heart and renewed sense of joy and peace about your love life. This vision can be your reality by joining…
Read MoreObsessing over something is the worst. When someone or something has pitched a tent and set up camp in your mind, it can be your own personal version of torture. What can we do to stop the seemingly endless cycle of obsessive thinking? What does NOT work is continuing to talk about whatever you are…
Read MoreGreetings from Thailand where I have been in cages with tigers, almost lit myself on fire while learning how to cook drunken noodles and rode an elephant bareback through the jungle in Chiang Mai. Needless to say it was not a typical week! Admittedly, I can be a bit of a scaredy cat when it…
Read MoreMy hunch is you are carrying around something that is very heavy and causes you unnecessary suffering. This thing blocks you from the experiences and connections you desire. It weighs you down, holds you back and robs you of joy. What is this dreadful thing I am talking about? It is your story. You see…
Read MoreMy guess is that your self-expression is a little backed up. How am I so confident in this assumption? Because a lot of us suffer from creative constipation! Self-expression is not very encouraged in today’s society, which tends to reward more for achievement and appeasement. Today in celebration of a huge creative release for me…
Read MoreI recently received the following question from a reader, “I know vulnerability is a good way to be, but I find it difficult. The moment I notice that feel I lost control of a situation, rather than keep feeling vulnerable, I move away from it. For example, when I am with people I date, rather…
Read MoreWe all go through times when we are addicted to something. Some obvious ones are drugs, alcohol, money, sex and food. But there are less obvious addictions that are important to be aware of like control, negative thinking, self-doubt, escaping through things like travel, and even over-achieving. Addictions of all kinds give us a false…
Read MoreAre you being a wee bit wimpy? Are you carrying around an unspoken question or assumption about something? Did someone do something or behave in a way that stumped (and possibly hurt) you but you haven’t had the guts to ask them about it? We’d rather suffer under our own assumptions, pretend everything is fine,…
Read MoreA client this week was struggling with a new relationship. Part of her was so happy and excited about connecting with a man who is incredibly good to her, emotionally available, and shares her top values. Things have been going really well and her mind knows that he is truly a great guy. Yet another…
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