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Coaches Corner: The power of relationships with Jordan Harbinger

 

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Listen in as Christine talks to her friend and fellow podcast host, Jordan Harbinger, about overcoming career expectation hangovers and the power of your network. Jordan shares his system on how to build and nurture the kind of relationships that are key to your success.c

Jordan is referred to as “The Larry King of podcasting,” is a Wall Street lawyer turned talk show host, social dynamics expert, and entrepreneur. After hosting a top 50 iTunes podcast for over a decade, that enjoyed nearly four million downloads a month at its zenith, Jordan has embarked on a new adventure: The Jordan Harbinger Show, where he deconstructs the playbooks of the most successful people on earth and shares their strategies, perspectives, and insights with the rest of us.

Jordan’s business sense, extensive knowledge of the industry, and contemporary approach to teaching make him one of the best and most sought-after coaches in the world.
Jordan Harbinger has always had an affinity for social influence, interpersonal dynamics, and social engineering, helping private companies test the security of their communications systems and working with law enforcement agencies before he was even old enough to drive.

Jordan spent several years abroad in Europe and the developing world, including South America, Eastern Europe, and the Middle East, and he speaks five languages. He has also worked for various governments and NGOs overseas, traveled through war zones, and has been kidnapped — twice. He’ll tell you the only reason he’s still alive and kicking is because of his ability to talk his way into (and out of) just about any type of situation.

Listen to Jordan’s podcast here: https://www.jordanharbinger.com/podcast/

 

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Coaches Corner: Christine answers listener questions about relationship and career

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In this episode of Coaches Corner, Christine opens her inbox and answers three emails from listeners.  Tune in for guidance on relationships, healing old wounds, and choosing a career path that lights up your soul!

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EP 107: Getting Over Boredom in Your Job with Becca

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This episode is about suppressing feelings and being comfortable in our own skin. Today’s caller, Becca, could have been a millennial who was accustomed to instant gratification and unrealistic expectations when it came to working. But, that isn’t what she struggles with at all. I didn’t stereotype her or jump to conclusions, instead, I asked her what is the most challenging thing in her life.

It’s hard to get yourself motivated and inspired when there is no feeling associated with what you are doing. Often, we think something external is the problem but there is no external without the internal. When we don’t know how to process our feelings, we numb the pain and keep upping the numbing technique. It’s important to learn how to process our Expectation Hangovers, our old hurts, our old pains.

When a pattern of discomfort has become too comfortable we may just want to change our lives, but like in Becca’s case, this can lead to extreme behavior. And, if you are holding on to shame, release it. Get it out into the light. Shame comes with blame. It’s time to forgive yourself and to forgive the other person because holding on to anger and resentment is only hurting you.

If you are looking for support, encouragement, and love, my Personal Mastery Course, Over It and On With It is the most comprehensive virtual coaching program I have. You receive six weeks of personalized coaching with me, guided meditations, videos, and I engage with you live on Facebook Lives and in group coaching calls. This course starts in October and it’s only offered once per year.

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Consider/Ask Yourself:

  • Would you consider yourself a bit of an extremist?

Becca’s Question:

Becca feels something is holding her back from being committed to her work.

Becca’s Key Insights and Ahas:

  • She is mimicking the patterns of her dad.
  • She distracted herself with drugs and alcohol to deal with her parent’s divorce.
  • She’s looking for quick fix.
  • She feels ashamed of contracting an STD.
  • She thinks of leaving her job when she needs a quick fix for a problem.

How to Get Over It and On With It:

  • She should forgive herself for distracting herself with partying.
  • She should bring her best to the job she is in now.
  • She can take responsibility for her choices without blaming herself.
  • She can do the exercises in Expectation Hangover.

Takeaways:

  • If you are bored in your job or relationship examine if you have difficulty being present.
  • Look at how some of your worst fears are already happening. Consider what you are going to do to change it.
  • Bring your shame out of the shadows. Forgive yourself and forgive others.
  • If you are bored in your work, or life, write a letter about everything that is wonderful about your situation. How can you bring more excitement from the inside out?

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CC: Christine answers questions about how to not “take on’ other people’s stuff and how to restart your career.

christine hassler podcastJennifer is a therapist who is feeling physically depleted after working with clients.  Christine gives her best tips for protecting her energy and serving people in a way that is energizing, not depleting. 

James is 54 years old and has worked at the same office job for three decades. He is interested in shifting to becoming self-employed but is disappointed he has not been able to get his new career off the ground.

Listen in as Christine addresses both these topics.

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EP 83: Letting Go of Parental “Mistakes” with Cathy.

Make sure to listen to this episode to hear Christine talk about the difference between sympathy and compassion.h

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